Jumping

It's such a sad thing to watch. A man jump from one female to another. For say they currently stable with one, long relationship but not dissected from it . Only to have current one hear the "I love you" words. Yet is a man even capable of that?

I mean he hasnt even removed himself from a relationship. Furthermore has never stopped having relations long enough to say separation has been made.

And clearly in a form of denial on any part acting. Got everyone not even mentioning nor questioning things. Charm. A snake . Sorry but there is no change there.

I have seen so many parts of men and women who jump and jump. It's a sad cycle that some just CANNOT be alone long enough to realize life can be good without a partner of sorts in it.

It's those people that remind me of needing of care. As though therapy, real therapy, could truly be beneficial. Yet they may never know because "therapy" only means another sexual conquest in their minds.

And as I sigh knowing not a part of me is involved with such people anymore , I still ache to care for their sorry state of self hate. And that is what it is. They have no sense of security WITHOUT someone.

I have been there myself. I have also seen it with family members and friends. So don't think I am pinpointing any one person. It's just this type of cycle I see all the time. All I can do is stand clear and observe.

And even observing is something I rarely do unless someone asks me to.

So here I am saying find who you are WITHOUT an attachment and see if you could really survive. For many that is the true test of change.

And don't get me started on love or loving someone. You gotta learn who you are free and clear before you can love yourself. Then try believing you can be loving and faithful to another person. On account of some, I doubt you can.

Truth and you know it. Sadly I am right.