Fascinating
You can't expect your life to be fascinating to anyone else but yourself. Because when you start to live for others you drown yourself out.
I learned long ago to forgo others because I am worth something to myself. I have come to realize that sometimes people just don't get you. And as hard as that may be, when you strive to make them see you the only thing you are doing is catering to them.
That is very harmful to your health. Even when they increase your health in some way, in the end it's all up to you how you breathe. Surprisingly I did have someone who gave me a lesson in health and had treats to coincide with the day. Yet in the end, everything was more stressful than healthy .
Sometimes that is where you just have to walk away . Else you drown in muck. No point in doing that. Not even for friendships. It's not worth it. Just pick yourself back up and keep going.
Somewhere down the line you find people that recognize your worth and want to help you maintain that or even increase through healthy encouragement .
Nevertheless in those moments where you think that isn't going to happen or the world is against you, just know this, you are not alone.
Even in my lowest moments I have found people that helped me. In the weirdest ways. Truly strengthening.
So even when you feel like there is absolutely no one being your cheerleader, be your own. For that can be very rewarding.
Keep going and move toward the goals you have set. For one day light will open and many joys will overflow. This I know has happened for me.
I cannot guarantee anyone else. Just myself a moment or two. And that is all I ask for.
I learned long ago to forgo others because I am worth something to myself. I have come to realize that sometimes people just don't get you. And as hard as that may be, when you strive to make them see you the only thing you are doing is catering to them.
That is very harmful to your health. Even when they increase your health in some way, in the end it's all up to you how you breathe. Surprisingly I did have someone who gave me a lesson in health and had treats to coincide with the day. Yet in the end, everything was more stressful than healthy .
Sometimes that is where you just have to walk away . Else you drown in muck. No point in doing that. Not even for friendships. It's not worth it. Just pick yourself back up and keep going.
Somewhere down the line you find people that recognize your worth and want to help you maintain that or even increase through healthy encouragement .
Nevertheless in those moments where you think that isn't going to happen or the world is against you, just know this, you are not alone.
Even in my lowest moments I have found people that helped me. In the weirdest ways. Truly strengthening.
So even when you feel like there is absolutely no one being your cheerleader, be your own. For that can be very rewarding.
Keep going and move toward the goals you have set. For one day light will open and many joys will overflow. This I know has happened for me.
I cannot guarantee anyone else. Just myself a moment or two. And that is all I ask for.
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