Wait..

The heart holds no rewards. It is best to find someone who holds the memories of your laughter and can converse with you for a moment or a million. Sometimes even sit with you in your blackened silence. That is how you know a person is for you.

As sad as some people need, crave for the attention of another they must remember to love themselves first. Find their comfort level. Sadly many run from one right into another. Forgetting that they need time to recoup. For some, the means of complaint and such allows them to never really get close to the next. Only for a brief time and then all fades away. Even those who work well with your mind, spirit and heart.

However I have noted many a times that people forget a rebound person does no justice to a healing wound. I have seen so many lost because nothing works out. I cannot stress enough it isn't the heart that needs the connection. It is the mind and spirit. When you have adjusted yourself to know the difference that is when the joy and hope come about.

As another says, my heart belongs to no one. Yes that is true. If you play with your heart as the leading character in the action of your life, you will always feel hurt. Such a waste of a person when you allow that to happen.

Learn to reach with your mind, with your spirit. You would be surprised just how much more rewarding that is. A spiritual person never claims to be perfect. They never say they can fix all that is broken within you. Yet, you must understand, the will try to bring extra joy, warmth and love to your blackened days.

That is why I always say find yourself first. Learn where you are with your spirituality. Learn about your good and bad qualities. Adjust yourself according to your spiritual growth. That is how you find what you are searching for.

In these stressful times, it is very well to be by yourself. Not lonely but alone in the aspect of accessing your mind, growing your understanding and applying what you have attained into your life. This helps you refine what, really, you are searching for. The application takes you to a level of intellect that digs into your core. Exposes what you need to research, what to avoid and how to move forward.

So, yes, your heart belongs to no one. The heart should never be an item that you look too for an answer. Your mind, your spirituality is where you should always look first. How? Prayers.

So let yourself be alone. Listen to the depth within yourself and grow. Let your heart stay locked up. Demand that you research how to improve yourself and then apply the knowledge to your life. That is what your mind is for. Don't let the heart be the ruler.

This is how you find the person that is for you. Do not be shy to wait. Patience is the best and most loving gift you can give yourself.

Wait.

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